Posts by Anony Mous

  • Lace83
    27

    I want a marriage mate that’s a brother

    by Lace83 in
    1. social
    2. relationships

    hi, my name is leacy and i am 41 years old.

    i live in california.

    i attend the rancho santa margarita congregation.

    1. Ugot2bekiddingme1
    2. stan livedeath
    3. joe134cd
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    I actually check a lot of your boxes—except for eye color. Tragic, I know. And then there’s that whole pesky California-to-here distance thing and the fact I haven't had multiple partners in quite some time… polyamory thrives on flexibility though, and you didn't exclude that possibility...

    I'm technically still a JW, so I even check that box, but I've stepped into a world where many ‘no’ turn into ‘why not’ - stepping outside your comfort zone isn’t just freedom, it’s an awakening.

    But hey, why not stick around and dive into the discussions here? The best connections (romantic or otherwise) tend to come from shared stories, I'm sure you have some questions, changes and doubt you want to share and ask about.

    And in the mean time, feel free to ask for some references to places that can give you some relief (and education) for your desires, from what I hear, guidance now says those are no longer prohibited.

  • Truth and Justice
    9

    Any reason for my mother and I not to go back, this is one of them.

    by Truth and Justice in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    hi to all, i have been away from the organization since the 1980's and as it seems, i haven't missed a thing.

    i have seen a deterioration take place that is continually getting more dramatic than i have ever seen.

    the thumbing down or the minimizing of spiritual food is reason enough that people are starving for something good.

    1. MeanMrMustard
    2. Duran
    3. Anony Mous
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    She may be trying to open a door. The Internet has helped many of us to come to a ‘better understanding’. If you are looking to rebuild that relationship, write back to her, not about doctrinal issues but the things she missed, children, progress etc, 45 years is a long time.

  • FreeFallin
    37

    serena williams

    by FreeFallin in
    1. watchtower
    2. scandals

    not really a scandal, but serena williams doing the crip walk on national tv wtf .

    1. Anony Mous
    2. liam
    3. liam
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    Again, renaming a few things because they got in legal trouble doesn’t change the fact, you said it yourself

    many are coming back to be able to talk to family

    And there is the problem. What if you don’t want to be associated with a non-Christian cult? What if you are member of another church? This seems like pure emotional blackmail to boost their numbers.

  • FreeFallin
    37

    serena williams

    by FreeFallin in
    1. watchtower
    2. scandals

    not really a scandal, but serena williams doing the crip walk on national tv wtf .

    1. Anony Mous
    2. liam
    3. liam
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    @liam: What evidence do you have that they truly changed their ways. The disfellowshipping arrangement is still in place, the 2 witness rule is still in place, social control is still a thing. Can you honestly tell the elders that you are posting here on apostate websites and get away with it?

    A few minor adjustments in the style and dress is insufficient, they have always done that, as long as it attracts some followers.